This is not a bragging story, nor is one trying to convey her child better than anyone else. I’d like to share with you a mother’s tale about her beloved son. My son Nathan (Nate) is in my eyes, an exceptional person. At only 15- years old, he seems to display wisdom far beyond his years.
When Nate was a very young, between the ages of 2 and 5, his father and I started calling him “an old man.” This is because at a very young age, he seemed to be very rigid and disciplined, not only with himself but with others as well.
As he grew older, his level of maturity baffled me because I could not quite understand where it had originated from and why he didn’t enjoy just being a kid.
Nate grew up in a home of divorced parents. However, his father and I have always strived to make sure we co-parent well, and most of all, that we are always honest with him. I’ve allowed Nate to see that I’m a human being who makes mistakes and falls, and who is also a person who has the ability and drive to get back on her feet.
Nate also grew up almost as an only child because his half-brother Daniel is nine years older. I often wonder if Nate was exposed more to mature than child-like behavior.
Either way, he’s grown to be the best person I know. He’s mature, warm, loving, and very empathetic. Nate accepts people and situations as they are, something I have yet to master. I’ve not seen a teenager who expresses affection publicly as he does. Nate tells me that he loves me daily, no matter where we are, or who’s around.
I know someday he may fall, but I also know he will rise. That’s the kind of person Nate is. So whether I had something to do with it or not, I’m grateful for who he is. I have no doubt that his maturity and good nature will be an asset both personally and professionally. I’m so proud of him and pray that he continues to be himself because to me, he’s pretty awesome!
