For the most part, men tend to be patient with our quirks and limitations. Let’s face it, ladies; we can be very hard to handle at times. Even with our gender differences, there are several things men just can’t stand in a woman, and if you want to keep your man and maintain peace, here’s what you need to know, and may want to work on:
1. A jealous woman
Men perceive jealous women as being insecure. Women who are constantly checking up on them, watching them closely for any signs of infidelity, and quarreling if he’s too friendly with someone else is a major turn off. Be careful what you’re attracting with your negative thoughts, because you may get what you don’t want!
2. An overly emotional woman
Women who are overly emotional tend to magnify things, behave irrationally, and try to prove they’re always right. They often try to portray themselves as a damsel in distress who needs rescuing. This type of women can seem overbearing, and eventually, men will learn to ignore their emotional spirals. This may cause women to feel uncared for and unsupported. So instead of blowing up right away, take a deep breath and analyze the situation; if this is not possible at the time, give yourself time and space, then revisit the issue at a later time. Your man will appreciate your maturity and self-control.
3. A non-sexual woman
To keep your man happy, you have to keep him satisfied. I’m not talking about becoming a sex slave; I’m referring to making sure he’s fulfilled with your sexual relationship. It’s not the quantity but the quality that matters to most men. Men feel secure and manly when their woman wants them, and in return, they will make sure you are satisfied as well.
4. A woman who takes herself too seriously
A woman who cannot laugh at herself is a woman who may be uptight, or too hard on herself. Men tend to gravitate toward women who can admit they are wrong and laugh at their mistakes.
5. A high maintenance woman
A woman who is always clingy requires constant attention and praise, and requires many superficial things to be happy is a woman men tend to stay away from. These women are viewed as egotistical and self-absorbed. Men view this type of woman as someone who is not caring and may require that her partner always takes care of their needs first, regardless of his own, or that of others.
6. A shopaholic
Men hate compulsive shoppers, especially if this behavior is draining their finances. Some women shop because they’re lacking something in their life. They feel their new purchase will bring them happiness. Unfortunately, that is not the case; this type of joy is temporary and only leads to financial hardship and huge problems with your partner. Figure out what leads you to compulsive shopping, and take care of it.
7. A chronic complainer
A woman who is not content with what she has, who complains and argues constantly about the same things or about everything, will eventually find that her complaints fall on deaf ears. Men become exhausted and emotionally drained with this type of woman.
8. A woman who lacks confidence
Are you insecure, shy, reserved? Most men prefer women who radiate self-assurance and grace. A confident woman is one who attracts positive attention with her exuberant personality and charm. Confident women are often fun, smart, and easy to get along with. A secure woman will attract confident men, and men feel secure in their presence.
9. A lying woman
A lying woman is perceived by men as untrusting and self-centered. These women usually strive to get what they want at the expense of others vulnerability and kindness. Most of the time, their men can see right through their lies, and when tired of ignoring or trying to fix it, they opt to seek a partner who demonstrates honesty, truth, and integrity.
10. A cruel woman
Compassion is not only good when offered to others, but it also is good for your the soul. People who practice great compassion are usually happier, healthier individuals. Men see a cruel woman as people who cannot be trusted in times of need, someone whose only best interest is her own. Cruel women are perceived as uncaring, egotistical, and mean.
