Having the perfect body has become the staple of what modern women should look like these days. What a load of baloney! No wonder the number of women with eating disorders worldwide is on the rise. We’ve allowed society to dictate what true beauty is. Although I believe women should take responsibilities for how they view themselves; as women, insecurities always tend to creep in, especially during intimacy.
What women don’t realize is that most men (the non-shallow ones at least) care more about the confidence they project, and not so much what they look like. Women who worry about their appearance usually don’t reach the level of intimacy a man desires them to attain. This is a major turn-off! Men are more likely to ignore imperfections as long as women accept themselves as they are.
Ironically, very attractive women seem to struggle with this most. They often get so caught up in themselves, they become extremely critical and self-conscious. Nothing is worse for a man than to have a woman trying to look pretty during sex! On the other hand, bigger girls seem to be far more confident because they’ve learned to accept themselves as they are. Not all men go for all types of women. When I man goes for you, it’s because you’re his type. A little flabbiness or minor imperfection is not going to matter as long as you enjoy.
When it comes to intimacy, do men really care about our flaws?
Having the perfect body has become the staple of what modern women should look like these days. What a load of boloney! No wonder the number of women with eating disorders is on the rise. We’ve allowed society to dictate what true beauty is. Although I believe women should take responsibilities for how they view themselves; as women, insecurities always tend to creep in, especially during intimacy. I guess women don’t realize that most men (the non-shallow ones at least) don’t really care about what they look like as much as they do the confidence they project. Women who worry about their appearance usually don’t reach the level of intimacy a man desires them to attain. This is a major turn-off! Men are more likely to ignore imperfections as long as women accept themselves as they are. Ironically, very attractive women seem to struggle with this issue the most. They often get so caught up in themselves, they become extremely critical and self-conscious. Nothing is worst for a man than to have a woman trying to look pretty during sex! On the other hand, bigger girls seem to be far more confident because they’ve learned to accept themselves as they are. Not all men go for all types of women. When I man goes for you, it’s because you’re his type. A little flabbiness or minor imperfection is not going to matter as long as you enjoy the act without it being a performance.